Coach - I think it's more that the adoption process forced us to step back and look at the overall question of do we want kids at all. I know that some people have that strong desire to have kids but I think a lot (us included) are kinda ambivalent about it. I wonder sometimes if people had to "apply" to have kids kinda the way the adoption process works, how many would still have them. I think a lot would, but I also know a number of people who had kids as sort of the logical next step, and they aren't so sure they made the right choice (of course they love their kids, but they realize that they never put much THOUGHT into it ahead of time.)
OT - thanks! I look forward to hearing more from you. I'm curious now.
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