My H lives at home and has an OW, that he sees. It isn't easy. Some days I am glad he is still at home, others I think it would be easier if he would leave. We still sleep in the same bed most nights.
I understand how you feel on not wanting to do things, but I have found you need to even if they are there. I find this VERY HARD!!! H and I always did Everything together and now if I am out by myself people question where he is.
A few times he has come home and I was going out, and I went a head and left, and he usually says he is going back out too. My H doesn't like to be home by himself, because it gives him time to think and it hurts him to think about what he is wanting to give up. My H hasn't left because of financial issues either, H could make it on his own, but I can't afford the house on my own. H says he worries about that. I have received great advice here that says if H wanted to leave he would just leave.
I wish I had some great advice for you, I have made some wonderful friends on here that give the best support! Just know you are not alone!
