My W is living at home in the guest room and it sucks. We each take a turn on the weekends doing something or going out. I miss her every minute in our bed, but I can say the tension is a little less with her in the other room.
Unlike you, my W still speaks to me and my children are young so we do things together. I don't envy your situation. I wish I had good advice for you also.
Just follow the DBing rules and stay strong. Good luck!
Married 10/12/2002 Me 35 Ring On Her 29 Ring Off D 4 S 2 Don't know if I am in love with you 10/7/08 Kinda Separated 10/7/08 EA/OM 6/6/08
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