Exactly. Thank you. But easier to blame me, who's to blame for everything including avian flu and global warming, than something nebulous like the court system.

Today's email, regarding visitation with D, said: "I just am wanting to communicate my desired involvement in her life. It doesn't have to change just b/c our living situation has." ROFLMAO! Take off those loveblinders, buddy, because waaaaay more than our "living situation" has changed.

If H and OW are still together by our initial hearing date (mid-December), it will be longer than their initial relationship! Maybe she's waiting until the divorce is final to become disillusioned with him this time.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012