That is a really tough call on the roommate thing. That is essentially what I am doing now. The tough part for me is that I am the only one working and we have children. So I really want her home for the kids.

Just be yourself at the wedding, be confident and not clingy. You don't need to show her anything, she will see who you are on her own.

Good luck.

Married 10/12/2002
Me 35 Ring On
Her 29 Ring Off
D 4
S 2
Don't know if I am in love with you 10/7/08
Kinda Separated 10/7/08
EA/OM 6/6/08

my current thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1623276&page=1&fpart=4