It will be really difficult to have no expectations about the trip. Because he indicates his willingness to go, this gives me hope and I'm trying not to have any of that right now. I know that sounds weird or pessimistic, but I think it goes along with no expectations.
If we do go together, any suggestions would be welcome. Should I treat it as if we were going before all this started and assuming we're going to do things together or indicate to him that he should feel free to do things on his own?
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
