Originally Posted By: hopeful4her


Financially, were both screwed.


One of the stark realities. \:\( Financially, no one can win in these sitches, and my view is that the K's are the ones that lose out the most. Bud, not sure what I can say but I feel for you on that one. My W hasn't begun to think finances as far as I can see... nothing has hit her yet.

Originally Posted By: hopeful4her
Also trying to figure out Halloween. Something we ALWAYS did as a family. Every year, we take the kids to MIL's neighborhood. It is her week this week. Do I try to join in?


Whew - slippery slope there. What do the K's have planned? Have they said anything? I know we do not want to put the K's in the middle of anything, but maybe play what you do by ear a bit based on what they say / have said?


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