Yes i know the destructiveness and ineffectiveness of accusatory language. It has never got me anywhere before with H , so i know it would not now.
I have done all the things you suggest. S20 has also asked and been turned down before, making it very differcult for him to keep asking. He is a proud young man.
H is a good father when not working. Thing is he measures his success as a father by his ability to provide. He did this as a H to. Commendable to a point. there has to be balance in all things in life, he cant find that balance.
Spm - are you making any progress ?
It is hard you not having one of these. I never know where you are at. Is home nearly sold ? How much time are you getting with kids ? Is anything improving in communication stakes with W ?
What will you be doing this winter ? Do you play a sport ?
