Wow it is amazing how these sitchs are similar I read your posts. Sounds like you are making progress. I was tying to figure out the right direction and am glad I stumbled here I thought she may be too young for an MLC.
my W is warming up to me, telling me that she misses intimate things about me but then asks me if I want the house or were am I going to live. This is a lousy time to sell my house and she even suggested being roomates untill the spring. My response was that I think it may be too hard for me. I now think that maybe I should consider staying in the house if she wants to, so that I can continue being strong and show her kindess. You seem to be getting some results even though it has been a roller coaster.
This weekend we will be at her sisters wedding and I am hopping that I can show her that I can be a fun guy but not put any pressure on her. Like you this DB stuff can be exausting.
Cheers, Jeff
Keep up the good work!
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
