I really really understand the saying ' Patience is a virtue '.
D18 comes home from college tommorrow. she is home for summer break. I invite H for dinner. He says fine but I kind of get the feeling like he is a ' Deer staring at headlights of oncoming car ' How do your know when your crowding them? Do I just put the invites out for important occasions and let him decide? I ask with no pressure, just a polite invite, I would not get upset if he said " No "
I have no need to get D. All D would change for me is the ability to remarry and I am not done with this one yet !
