Arthur: Yeah I agree that I may be a little desperate to meet someone, but at the same time I'm realistic, and I have lots going on just being without someone. I don't want to de-rail any new relationships I may have - I just desire to have a good one. I am back to learning what I was taught earlier - patience!

Whatisis: Long time no chat! Thanks for the site! I will look into that - possibly the best thing I can do in order to hook up with other people having the same interests I have! That's kinda a requirement for me nowadays to make friends or to date anyone. Can't have a good relationship if there isn't a foundation of similar interests right?

Heartbroken - it's good to see that you are doing much better as well. I like hearing about the ones that are able to work it out. I just couldn't handle all the drama that was going on here a year or so ago - I needed to detach completely and just get over my hump of my separation. Now things are much clearer - and I know with 110% certainty that my and the ex do NOT belong together! I did think about taking art classes again - preferable in the evenings. I also was thinking of getting my teaching credentials so I could teach as well - that would be interesting. Lots of options for me now. I guess I just need to go out and enjoy my free time with friends.


~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
~ Happiness is a state of mind ~