Quite often the OM relationship goes south. What I do understand is that the end of the OM relationship does not mean the end of the MLC. Sometimes people in MLC get out of a relationship and right into another one OR out of one and then work their way out of the tunnel.

It is the running,distancing and emotional detachment that is freaky to me. I can not relate to or identify with that. My memories are so vivid and there are so many of them over 30 years that it is inconceivable that they wouldn't naw at her they way they do me. But like AmyC said they feel like they are in a glass box where they can see but can't feel.

This MLC is pretty wild stuff. Hang in there. I'll do the same.

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final