Can any one tell me what they think. My W dropped the bomb on me 5 months ago I have been employing DB methods with mixed results. We are friendly now and even laugh together (I have been Trying to create a positive environment). She has been telling me what she misses about me on one hand but still talking about separation on the other (That she wants the house and we have split up finances). She seems too young to have a mlc but is evaluating her life says I am a great guy but doesn't want to be married.
She is "friend" with a 53 year old man who she cycles with a lot and is obsessed with this new hobby. She goes to his house but says nothing is going on (his wife died a year and a half ago).
She has been growing apart from her family to the point that, as her sisters maid of honor she has done nothing, to the disappointment of her sister. She treats her mother terribly as well. Any thoughts?
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
