Don't I know it. I'm keeping on keeping on. Trying to get to the top of the hill. My plan is that it will be Friday. How's that for positive thinking. Once I get my insurance check, I'm gonna put some ducks in order.
I feel bad about you having to move out of your place. But I do know what you mean. Heard some stroies as of late. One was really sad and happy. Situation like ours. She moves on with OM. He becomes abusive and starts cheating on her. She calls her kids and tells them what's going on over a 4 month period. Husband doesn't want to hear, so the kids said nothing. Husband finds out. Let me back up, they are now divorced 1 year or so. Husband kicks in door, kicks OM's ass and walks out. Never said a word to her. Police come and get him. He goes to court, she testifies that the OM was verbally abusive to her. they find the ExH guilty, 6 months probation and $1000 fine. She calls him a week later and asks to come back. She shows up and asks, why did you do it, He says, why do you think I let you back. True story, met the people. Weird.
Nothing is over until I decide its over....Good luck, stay in touch...