Interesting, Jeannine...I'm trying to keep your last post in mind, while KAW's awesome response is down below...

So SOMETHING in what you did or didn't do WORKED...your H dropped the alien mode and returned to you for the evening. Or was it all just crap he was working out in his OWN head???

Regardless, I think it sounds like a DB success!!!

Now KAW...your post struck home for ME...sorry to hijack J!!!

I've been grousing a lot about MY needs not being met now. It's been nearly a year since Bomb #1.

Your post shook me up some, KAW, but in a most needed way. I never consciously thought of CJ having second, second thoughts. or perceiving my needs and LL as "obligations"

I guess my first clue should have been him saying more than once that he was "working on" physical affection!

Thank you for a timely post, with a message for another beside the intended!!

Shiny