I am slowly getting back to liking me for who I am.
This is key to your future. You have been bombed so much into thinking you aren't quality enough for your xw, it is such a blow that it does take a loonnggg time to recover from the damage the WAS causes us.
That is why it is so important to get out and GAL and find people that DO recognize your qualities. Get into groups that appreciate you. Rebuild.
We'll always butt heads on 'standing'. IMO it depends a lot on the WAS and if you have even have a chance to 'stand' or if they take that option away from you when they head full speed to file D.
A major difference for us is I had the option and am doing my work to like myself while I am still M, while you are doing your work post D. The important point is that we both get there again.
(((Jeff)))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
