So....H spent all weekend with his kids as ow was sick ! She had a sore back or something, was crying all Saturday, according to D9. H took the kids to the movies on Saturday, and had dinner with them over there. ow was home alone. Then today, H and the kids went out for breakfast and to a 'family happening' without ow (I thanked God for this, as I hated the idea of H and ow playing 'my' happy family together !) H was out all day today, and brought the kids back at around 6pm. ow called him on the phone whilst he was here (AGAIN !!!) he told her, he was still with the kids...and that he'd be on his way soon. I then started telling him about an exhibition I went to today, something we used to go to together...he didn't seem in a hurry to leave, I asked him if he wanted a coffee for the road...he did, so I made him one. We talked a little more and then he left.
I sent him a TM later, saying "H, if ow is in that much pain, (as the kids have told me) maybe you should take her to the ER. Hopefully get well."
He sent me a lovely TM back "Thank you for your sweet message, we are going to wait and see till tomorrow and we'll see a doktor then. Have a good night !"
So that was that. I thanked God.
My neighbors left on holidays today, and tonight all of a sudden their house alarm went off ! I called them on their cell and the alarm central had contacted them allready ! I asked them if they wanted me to call the police... Well, after a while the police came by and rang my bell, I opened the gate and let them in. They told me that they had checked the grounds and nothing seemed wrong. It was so kind of them to let me know !
I hope everybody is ok ! Lots of love xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders- You compassion for the OW is amazing. I think I may have told you this before but I will tell you again...The world would be a much better place if there were more people like you in it.
I hope someday your H will wake up from all of this and realize what he has given up. And I hope you continue to find more happiness everyday. You deserve it.
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"... ow never learnt that as she took my H and I'm sure she'd hate it if someone took him from her....but it's never too late, maybe she can learn by example.
Love to you Upside ! How are things going .???
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
So....H spent all weekend with his kids as ow was sick ! She had a sore back or something, was crying all Saturday, according to D9. H took the kids to the movies on Saturday, and had dinner with them over there. ow was home alone. Then today, H and the kids went out for breakfast and to a 'family happening' without ow (I thanked God for this, as I hated the idea of H and ow playing 'my' happy family together !) H was out all day today, and brought the kids back at around 6pm. ow called him on the phone whilst he was here (AGAIN !!!) he told her, he was still with the kids...and that he'd be on his way soon. I then started telling him about an exhibition I went to today, something we used to go to together...he didn't seem in a hurry to leave, I asked him if he wanted a coffee for the road...he did, so I made him one. We talked a little more and then he left.
Really? You would have thought he would have cancelled the kids to look after her.
Strange!!
I can’t help wondering if it really was her back that was upsetting her???
Interesting ....
Nutty x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Well, ow is flat on her back in bed. No idea what she has, but H told me she's flat on her back.
I was thinking....H has met his match !!! You see, for YEARS now, H has had a bad back ...and it was a huge source of disappointment for me, as we often had to pass on great activities, because of it...now he's got an ow with a bad back ! I can't help but smile at the thought !
Having a great day with the kids, we've been cooking and playing ! Enjoying our autumn break from school !
Nope, not all is great I'm thinking...but will it be enough to make H think?! Can't tell, so trying not to think about it.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
For I have been wishing much pain to ow with her back, and I have even thought some horrid thoughts, not like me at all, and it is truly not in proportion to what she has done.
Does anyone ever think this bad ? Or am I a bad person deep down?
I don't dare say the things I think out loud right now... and they are only momentary of course, but still, does that make me bad and evil?
Dear God I hope not.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
