Hey Fish. Sorry to see you here, but updating/venting will help you work through your feelings.
I was in the same boat on the house. XH didn't help with any of the bills so I shouldered all the financial responsibility. A couple of months post bomb I moved to another state and put my house on the market. It took 11 months to sell!!! I feel it held me back from really moving on as I was (and still am for two more months) living with my mom. It is hard when you don't have your own space. It starts getting closterphobic.
The only advice I have is....this too shall pass. It is hard, but the house will sell eventually. Just be prepared to wait it out. Is your W living in the house? Is she paying anything? I gather that paying the mortgage is your child support.
About the woman...does she know your situation? Does she live alone? Can the friend that you live with give you a night alone?
