Thanks for the luck. I hope it goes well. I'm trying not to get too jazzed because last time I was crushed when it did not work out. But I am excited. Lol.
He decided not to come to church with me but he did come over even though he was kinda being wishy washy because he was in one of his "moods" and he did not want us to fight like the last time he was in a "mood." I just said it was up to him and did not push it at all. Let him be a rubber band!!! It was hard though because I really wanted to see him (and get out of my house for awhile!) and eventually he decided to come over. I really did a good job because if I had gotten pushy and bossy or whinny he would have backed out but I showed that I AM capable of giving space and CAN deal with his moods and he came over!
So yesterday was just a really good day. He was a little grumpy when he first got there but I did not pester him like last time I just kept on business as usual. We had a long R talk that went really well. I was starting to feel like he was backing out of our plan to move in together because he had not been talking to me very much since I had taken him home Wednesday. But it is still going on and we are going to be married, not roomates. A lot lot of future talk all day long which is always a good sign. And comforting. I feel a little more stable now.
We went shopping and he got some "man toys," an XBOX 360 and rockband. . .oy vey! Silly hubby. He was all excited though. Then we went and looked at phones since we are going to be upgrading soon. I'm getting an iPhone! Super jazzed about that. Our plan does not switch until May but we are going to upgrade my phone in the next couple of weeks and get him one in January. We made a couple of changes to our existing plan which may not seem like a big thing but it was because the day was filled with "couple" decisions and we haven't made any of those in awhile. It feels like we are a team again and not just two people who ML and talk everyday. We are married!
He bought me dinner and we went back home and he played his new games. I was on my computer and he kept calling me out to the living room and at first it kinda annoyed me but then I remembered that this is a huge respect and friendship thing to a man. The "over the shoulder companionship" so I went out and watched and then he played a different game and we could talk because it was not so focused. So that was fun after all.
We watched a little tv, ML, and had another mini-R talk about the ILY's and nick names. I have said ILY once or twice now and he has not said it back and I was getting annoyed. I know it is not really his thing, it never was, but if you say it once why not say it again? We talked about it a bit and I did get one before he left. As for the nicknames, I have been calling him by his almost this whole time but when I asked him when he was gonna call me "sweetie" again he said we aren't moved in yet. Whatever that means. I didn't want to argue about it so I just let it go and enjoyed the snuggle.
He left a little while later because it was pretty late and he was tired and had an hour to drive. So we said goodbye (when I got the ILY) and he texted me when he got home to let me know he is safe.
It was a good day. I am feeling a lot better about the whole situation and am just impatient again to get the right jobs and move.
He still hasn't found his ring yet. He asked why I wasn't wearing mine and I told him I have to take it to get resized. It's a little tight, wearable but tight. I'm taking it on Tuesday and then probably won't get it back until the weekend or something. Oh well. I've waited this long!
I will post after my interview on Tuesday to let y'all know how it goes!
but he did come over even though he was kinda being wishy washy because he was in one of his "moods" and he did not want us to fight like the last time he was in a "mood." I just said it was up to him and did not push it at all. Let him be a rubber band!!! It was hard though because I really wanted to see him (and get out of my house for awhile!) and eventually he decided to come over. I really did a good job because if I had gotten pushy and bossy or whinny he would have backed out but I showed that I AM capable of giving space and CAN deal with his moods and he came over! 
Super jazzed about that. Our plan does not switch until May but we are going to upgrade my phone in the next couple of weeks and get him one in January. We made a couple of changes to our existing plan which may not seem like a big thing but it was because the day was filled with "couple" decisions and we haven't made any of those in awhile. It feels like we are a team again and not just two people who ML and talk everyday. We are married!
