Quote: My H has a problem with my saying much of anything anymore, he is so easily set off. I think he expects me to be silent and stoic and basically leave him out of this mess. Jeannie, one thing women don't understand is, us men GRUNT are clueless most of the time. Unless you tell us, and lead us by the hand, you will keep getting the same results. Assume he knows nothing, women assume we get it and don't care. We truly don't get it. And it takes a while of holding our hands till we do. Unless you tell him your love languages, he will not know.
