Hey Jeanine, Have you read Men, Women, and Relationships by John Gray? At first I scoffed at readng any of the John Gray stuff but I found that book to really make some sense of the way men and women communicate and some of the ways in which they clash because of it. Might be worth checking out if you haven't already.
A dream it's true
But I'd see it through
If I could be
Wasting my time with you
-Band:Phish Song:Waste