I am, as Woog used to say, "Sticking to the plan" of not discussing our M at all. I don't know how long that will last, but that is the current plan.
I am not ready to say the lawyer visit was a wake-up call. H is deep down in the tunnel of NFC-land and it will take a lot of work on his part to climb back out....But if nothing else I do hope he learns to be more patient with the kids. Last night was a start.........