After she detached from me emotionally then it seems like she stopped doing it. I'm sure she just bad-mouthed me privately to her friends. All part of the WAW syndrome. W told everyone else what was wrong in our M, but me!
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Just talked to S & D and they both have that sad tone in their voices, maybe it is just the way I am hearing it though. W asked me about Halloween and coming down to trick or treat. It is my weekend with the kids and I will do what they want to do to make them happy. Then we will leave and drive to Grandma's house to spend the rest of the weekend. W just very cold on the phone and that is OK.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
LE!!!! Hang in there! Sorry the kids sounded sad...it's soo tough when they are like that. Trick or treating will be nice. This weekend is my H's with the boys, but I told him I needed to keep them on Friday night since I was planning to take them to a Halloween party and trick or treating from there. I did sort of invite him to the party...he just said, "No, thanks."
I'm feeling better myself. Trying to get my life back in order. I've been putting so many things off...I didn't realize until last week how much I was letting slip.
I can't wait till we can share the shopping duties. It will be awesome...you and MC can drop off laundry and pick up my grocery list! I'll do the laundry and bring it back to you and get my groceries at the same time. I can even stop by Tawnya's a help her put hers away!!!! And, all the while, the kids will be playing together just across the street in the best park you've ever seen with us all taking turns tending to knee scrapes, etc. I don't know what we are waiting for!!!
Hugs to you all! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Very funny. If only I had Bill Gates type $ to pull it off!
It looks like you had a good breakthrough this past week. Laying it all on God. I think I've done that. but I still have a queasy feeling in my stomach about it. Although I hvae pretty much detached now. Just trying to figure out how W thinks she can now re-fi our house, by taking a new job. How is that going to look to the creditors?
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
LE can do the computers for everyone, i can be the medic for the complex, what was that Amy is doing, the laundry,GREAT im tired of doing it. Ok so what is mc, k, and bg doing/
LE i dont now if the queasy feeling will every go away. Just pep urself up that ur going to have a great time and make that happen. It will be a good halloween, with the kids! U not done with the computers yet?
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
LE Try to have a good night, get off of here and get it done so u can get some rest. A tired mind makes you wonder things u shouldnt. We are all in this together. You have been a great friend and a great help to me and i thank you. Will talk to u tomorrow. GET IT DONE!
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
Can someone hurry up and get this complex built ???? I can be the party organiser with my able assistant Mike the bartender. Mike will also be the lumberjack as he is obsessed with wood and keep the log fire going in the bar area !!!
LE - Everytime I come here, it's like reading my life story. Your post a page or 2 back about being co dependent and wife filling a roll, be littling etc...OMG...That so struck home.
