I was out here with your and Olive and MC way back in Jan/Feb 2007 - always wondered what happened with you! You sound so much better - life was so negative for you back then and at least you and the ex can parent together for the sake of your D!
Are you still doing any of your art stuff? Maybe you could meet someone at an art gallery or art class? Think of things you like to do - meeting someone wiht common interests at least starts off on a solid foundation! I agree with previous posts - just go out without any intentions - that's when you will meet someone!
I rarely post out here but I read each day - trying to find a newcomer I can help! I did make it through and am still with my husband - it was a long 18 mos. We are doing very well...
Take Care!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing