I still go back to bringing in OM's W into this. I really think that would give your W a view on just how much harm she is causing.....and make her realise that OM hasn't quite got the handle on reality your W thinks he has.
When my H was faced with the harsh reality of what it would do to him financially......and how far I would go both finanacially and emotionally, he reviewed the process very qickly.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
