Hi Native, I totally agree with how you feel about changing, being able to stand on your own. And being tired of trying to pick someone up emotionally, especially seeing that my H hasn't done anything to work on our M. I think it takes one to start the DB process ... but that only works for so long if two aren't involved. Are you finding a strange sort of peace?? That is where I'm at. \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)