I think that would be awesome fun. A gated Dbing neighbourhood , all trying to decide if we wnat to be M or not. Way to much temptation to stray........
I would have to get a green card if i can fit the criteria !
Yeah, it felt good. I told winggirl21 that I would stop by where she worked and chat a bit. I'm just going to be careful; she's a really sweet girl who deserves good in life. From what I know from her, she's been very selective about boyfriends. She's also has a great relationship with both of her parents; so she's has a good upbringing unlike the turmoil that my W went through.
So what I'm saying is that I'm going to keep at a friend level. She doesn't need to be involved with a man with the baggage that I've got. I know I certainly wouldn't want my D to get involved with something like that.
But it is an ego boost; gives me more confidence when I do get back out there for real.
My W's step-father was trying to get me to tell the W that I had plans tonight with the crazyblonde21; but I'm not going to lie like that. I told him as much as I think that it would be fun to mess with my W; I can't do it. crazyblonde21's twin sister (who's not crazy) cuts my W and D's hair.
He's also after me to get her to be more responsible around the house. He knows what she's like; he's lived with her before. I need a way to snap some reality into her. She has it made right now. No rent, no food costs, no responsibilities. She needs to find out what's it's going to be like as a D woman.
Well, she's funny. She's not hung up on being beautiful. We can have intelligent conversation. She sought me out; I didn't even know she was in the place. It's not the type of place that I would have expected to see her; because I've usually only seen her at the "meat markets." She said that she hangs out there all the time because it's close to work and home and it's cheaper than the hot spots.
Actually, I have to confess that I have already kissed several months back. On her 21st birthday, the W and I ran into her and her friends. W was so drunk and winggirl21 was too; W convinced winggirl21 and me (reluctantly) that we should kiss. Eventually we did. We've kept it a secret since. Just the three of us know.
did I just tell you that? Maybe that's another reason I'm attracted. But right now is NOT GOOD.
I think that would be awesome fun. A gated Dbing neighbourhood , all trying to decide if we wnat to be M or not. Way to much temptation to stray........
I would have to get a green card if i can fit the criteria !
I think staying M in that neighborhood would be hard. I believe the intent was for all of us DB'ers to live together after D. I'll have to ask LE.
As far as the green card, just tell the state dept. you're seeking political asylum. Works for everyone else, why not you? LOL!
Ha ha . I think it would be fun. They would probably mmake a movie about us. All the fun and no commitment EVER, cause we would all be waiting for M s to work....
Your right , you guys take anyone.......ha ah
I tried to find you on FB but could not work it out.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
