Yeah, it felt good. I told winggirl21 that I would stop by where she worked and chat a bit. I'm just going to be careful; she's a really sweet girl who deserves good in life. From what I know from her, she's been very selective about boyfriends. She's also has a great relationship with both of her parents; so she's has a good upbringing unlike the turmoil that my W went through.
So what I'm saying is that I'm going to keep at a friend level. She doesn't need to be involved with a man with the baggage that I've got. I know I certainly wouldn't want my D to get involved with something like that.
But it is an ego boost; gives me more confidence when I do get back out there for real.
My W's step-father was trying to get me to tell the W that I had plans tonight with the crazyblonde21; but I'm not going to lie like that. I told him as much as I think that it would be fun to mess with my W; I can't do it. crazyblonde21's twin sister (who's not crazy) cuts my W and D's hair.
He's also after me to get her to be more responsible around the house. He knows what she's like; he's lived with her before. I need a way to snap some reality into her. She has it made right now. No rent, no food costs, no responsibilities. She needs to find out what's it's going to be like as a D woman.
