'Its hard accepting it is over and he is building a life with her.'

If he is as immature with her as he was with you, how long do you think it will last ?

I don't give it good odds myself.

Right now, you just need to breath the fresh air, realize that his leaving is not a negative reflection on you, learn what you can, be the best mother for your kids....learn from all that this has to teach you. There is always something to learn. And what you learn will make you a better, more attractive person for it.

You will feel strong again one day and maybe you will even see you H as he really is, not as he appears now.

What makes you feel good ? Listen to some music, go for a walk, buy some new clothes, do that excercise program, take time to pamper yourself and feel good, look attractive and smile...

You can cry here. All of us understand your feelings of hurt, even anger. But we're all going to make it. Time to take baby steps San....

Last edited by native; 10/27/08 03:46 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09