He asked about a family event that is coming up and if I was going. I said Yes ( its a wedding )and I did recieve an invitation. I said dont worry about what people think or how i will be because as far as I was concerned we are not M and nor did i want to be therefore I would have no excpectations of him behaving like a H.
It was the first time I have indicated that since a year after A was discovered. I took some convincing about remaining M in that first year. Much to my regret now.
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DID HE ASK FOR A DIVORCE???
He has never ever ever brought up the D word.
I have learnt that if H talks about R then I say very little but hear him out. If he talks about A , I am sorry and remorseful and take full responsibility. Not that either of these 2 topics has come up much in past 6 months.
Your right I dont want to end M but I also cannot continue much more like this. I m definitely going to seek a C out this week and see if it is detaching , I am having a problem with or is it a control issue. Either which some prof help is in order.
