Hey K, thanks for the 2x4 on my thread...it was gentle but appropriate. There are just times that the little "what if" devils come whispering in our ears. Most of the time I dont listen and I have worked very hard a getting detached. Almost there, but not completely. Not enough time has past yet.
I think you should send your X an email that says he is not allowed to enter your bedroom. It is not appropriate for him to be that comfortable in YOUR home. As far as how to handle son, personally your X chose to leave and now can learn how to be a father all on his own. It is his responsibility to create a relationship with them. So what if son's hair is gross when he is with X, when he is with you then you can handle it your way. Unless your children are in danger from X, dont offer him any advice. Just my opinion.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
