You have to consider this too: If by some miracle you H does come back, can you forgive him ?
My Dad left my mom when I was 6 for about 6 mos. to be with an OW. He finally did come back, but it was obvious that my Mom never fully forgave or trusted him.
The OW had been a 'friend' of hers from the neigbhorhood who also left her H.
For a long time, my Mom had no close girlfriends. Probably 10 yrs. Finally she made some at church and I think her life has been immensly richer for it.
Friction between Mom and Dad has never fully healed. Sometimes I think how easy it would be for my dad to leave again, but he is on much steadier ground morally. But Mom never fully recovered.
Don't let this beat you.
And listen to that song I linked for you.
God bless and hang in there !
'We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God-those whom he has called according to his plan.' Romans 8:28
Last edited by native; 10/27/0803:26 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
