It has been siad on these pages that there must be a book written on how to be a "walk away". They all seem to do and say the same things regardless of the situation.
There must also be a book on how to be the OW/OM. These people just seem to know what to say and how to say it that solidifies their own positions and ends all hope of saving the marriage.
You know things like - He/she never understood you like I do. You're a wonderful person who has been taken for granted. You never did anything wrong. You deserve happiness...can't you hear it?
Gigi
Gigi,
Yes.... I can hear it.....
But it is like anything..... You know what is right... You know what is wrong..... When you are married, you DO NOT talk to someone of the opposite sex outside of immediate family about your M...... You talk to the SAME SEX if anyone beside your spouse.....
The really disturbing thing is these people are so mentally AND emotionally screwed up, they choose to NOT SEE they are being manipulated by this person playing "saviour"........ They are plain stupid..... No other way to say it....
How would any sane woman react to the following?
Quote:
I know your H does NOT understand you like I do. You deserve so much more. Jump into bed with me!
They would want to kick him in the balls!!! They would be thinking... WAIT!! I am going through all this emotional turmoil... and you want to do is be romantic with me? Don't you care about me? If you were a GOOD PERSON, you would be encouraging me to work on my M... Am I just another piece of a$$?
Am I right or wrong here?
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
