You know Jeff, I know you are a lot closer to the other girls, but where the heck was my hug? You know, a hug is a hug, even if it is a cyber one. I dont get any hugs in the real world anymore.
Anyway, the first and third answers were kinda the same. But one was that she did not want to work on the marriage and goodbye and the other was she didnt want to work on it, but could continue to live as you too have been.
It is a very long time for you to live as you have been. But, in your own time. You'll know when you are ready to hear her answer.