A frightening analogy, but very validating for me all the same. I see the same things in my H, mostly with the gambling, but also with the troll. As much as the addiction part has hurt, I almost dread the withdrawl part even more...

Just read your post to H4H and it was so good. You give him the perspective he needs to keep up with his fight. We all try, but what you say seems to have a lot of impact on him and he needs that. Thank you. Roger is a good guy and I so wish I had someone that would fight for me the way he fights for his wife. (sorry for the thread-jack, just wanted to tell you.) Sugar

Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 10/27/08 02:39 AM.
M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option