If you listen to no other advice here, heed what Puppy says. You have to figure out what you are and are not willing to deal with, lay it out for her and then see where it goes. Put the ball in here court. I would also strongly advocate telling OMW, that way everyone is on a level playing field and bringing harsh reality will kill some of the "fantasy" of the A.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
