Pretty inconsiderate J. But NOT unusual. They ARE wrapped up in their stuff, my H showed incredible insensitivity when I was ill last summer/fall.
Heck he dropped bomb #1 when I was three weeks post op and then dragged me out to a karaoke bar that same night!!!
I guess what I mean to say it that it SUCKS and you deserve BETTER...but it's not a prediction of how things will work out, or how he may come to feel about you in the near future.
Glad they found a vein, even if it was 'ol bruiser.
