I agree she is pretty young to be in mlc. I don't know how long ppd can last, but she has changed into a totally different person. She has also made the comment "I dont know why but when you try to talk to me I get so angry." Its like she can't control it. I am learning more as time goes on to focus on myself and children. I'll admit I'm a "Mr.fix it" to the T. Maybe I should have chose that name instead, and maybe thats the biggest lesson for me to learn...I can only change me.
I think she sees the changes. About a month ago she got me worked up a bit and the first words out of her mouth were "here comes the old "trapt" again." It struck me funny at the time I don't know why and I started to laugh. Her next comment was "well atleast your laughing about it." I think I did a 180 without even trying. I know she loves to try to test me. She used to call me a roulette wheel. The funny thing is I was just reacting to all of her wierdness.
I can't believe this can go on forever. It just seems she will do anything to escape her feelings. The only people she will talk to about us are her new friends. I think she knows some of her family and our mutual friends can see through her bs.