Geez. Your W sounds like a car salesman, not that there's anything wrong with that, but shouldn't be doing that to your H!!! Esp. when you're feeling sick! I hope you feel better soon!
Well, I think you should take the time to think about it, wait until you're not sick or whatever. Don't let your W pressure you into it which sounds like she is trying to do. Maybe you could tell her in a firm voice that you are considering the offer, but if she continues to harass you about it then the answer will be a definite no. (We did that with the kids when they were little I have to admit). Karen