Hi Dr.L. We haven't met before, but I've read your thread off and on. We are living an extremely similar life. We finished Retrouvaille about a month ago. We could probably learn a lot from each other. I'm your wife, as they say, in that I had the A. I'm also in the alternate universe. Sara would help you find me.
I was not going to log on this afternoon. Seems when I do lately I mess things up. I sent you a request whatdidido...
Went down to the station this morning and cleanded up a few cars then went to MIL house and cleaned up the yard. BIL is comming over Sunday so I wanted his mom's place to look nice.
Looking forward to "meeting" you whatdidido
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
"Why am I still empty feeling? Why do I still feel like the hugs are ok, but the kisses are fake (on my side)? Why do I still feel like something is missing? Why do I still have no desire to be with him sexually? Why do I feel angry and sad at the same time?
Why can't I be happy? Why can't I get the feelings for this man that is being so wonderful? " Wow are you sure you are not my wife????
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
wdid... Guilt, negative feelings, low self esteem, some deep seated feeling that you don't deserve it, some thought pattern that your father left you behind, didn't care for you, and you "know" that every other man will do the same thing to you.
Oh no!!!! You didn't scare me off!!!!! I was only able to get on really quickly last night.
Weekends are tough for me to get on here, especially this weekend...I have more work to complete than normal for my job. I write curriculum and my son is only at school 2 days next week. Not sure how I will get my work done with him home.
I will be messaging you either tonight or tomorrow. Until then, tell me what you wish your wife would do. Hey, I'm a teacher. I give assignments.
((((dr.love))) I know what she said must have stung a bit. But Sara is right she didn't say know. Keep the date, but don't count on anything. Im praying she warms up
Now, if you go to that bar and hang out with Obama fans.. I may have to slap you :).. Only kidding I won't get into politics here... wanted to cheer you up.
You'll be fine, you know that either way
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Kept busy today. Trimmed Mill’s ivy (BIL was coming over I wanted his mom's house to look nice, I cut my lawn. Fixed the antenna in the mustang. Stained my trailer. Fixed the hole in the screen door and put on a new handle. (Wife request) watched Shawn of the dead and V on the boob tube. And now just wrote a little note to WDID. Need to do a little reading about her sitch Oh son woke up last night with "night terrors" according to wife. They are different from night mirrors. He has been having more and more. I think he must know things are not right.
Oh well got to go eat dinner...
BTW Tal didn't make it to the bar...
Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Hey buddy - My oldest son used to have night terrors when he was little. In his case, the solution was to take him to the bathroom, stand him up in front of the toilet, and get him to pee. After that he would sleep fine.
Until then, tell me what you wish your wife would do. Hey, I'm a teacher. I give assignments.