I'm hoping this sex drive lull is organic in nature and not something else. He has had this problem in the past, however, he used to try harder to overcome it.
I've got lots of slinky things to dress in and I wear them but alas.... .
Although I lean toward believing my H when he said that he has "burned that bridge", I have this tiny little voice in the back of my head whispering "OW is still smack-dab under his nose every work day. Maybe it's NOT completely over inside his head". The boss has yet to move her to another department as per my H's request.
Worse yet is the thought that maybe he is trying to break that one last powerful bond with me.
You're right though, "no pressure" is the way to go. I really dislike being in this position. It wouldn't be so awful if I was rewarded for my efforts.
The radiologist had to use the same bruised vein, just a little higher up. I survived.