I won't file, not yet anyway, but I think maybe I am steeling myself a little/a lot at this time.....
Just work on yourself, your strength and keeping your kids well adjusted and happy. Give him the space he needs to figure out what's going to make him happy, and if he says "I want to leave." Tell him the door is open and he can always choose to either walk out, or stay....
Concentrate on you, and loving yourself. You are valuable.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
