[Just a warning to newbies....My tell-off is not something that I recommend. I only did it because JA has been gone for well over 2 years, has not changed one bit, the divorce is practically final, I felt I had nothing else to lose, and it's about time JA heard MY feelings".
MrsH, It was really thoughtful of you to consider the newbies reading along. Hugggggs to you. Hope you feel better soon.