New Here-From Newcomers- hoping for more input...

[optimistwife]

I almost feel guilty posting these days as things are pretty good on my side, and it seems like they are really rough for everyone else right now.

H's dad is out of the hosp from his cardiac issues. Not sure what triggered them- mild heart attack?, etc. but the good news is he is doing okay for now.

It is really strange to now be part of my H world again in terms of visiting his apt. Have now been over 4 times to have dinner or just watch a video. He spend a night at my house this weekend and after he fell asleep in bed I looked over and for a minute it felt so normal, it was like none of this had ever happened.

He seems a bit more affectionate overall- which is a big change from several weeks ago. I only hope that this will last.

There has been a few weird things. I guess his EA/'friend' moved out of the apt building (she had an apt there), but didn't get all her stuff out in time so some of it is at his apt.. of course it has crossed my mind with various scenarios, but I am trying not to think too much. Of course I have tried to eyeball things as much as possible while I am visiting.

I guess whatever has happened I can't agonize over, and at this point just work on building from where we are now. I would like to believe that he thinks he is just being a good friend... but...

Oh well. He is acting slightly more invested these days.