Hi Jeanine, I like the summary! Your H is really not holding up with the family arrangement and when seeing the OW , everything looked greener right? Isnt that the walk away spouse syndrome? wham! then you find out everything. I think the H's have the A to get out of the M because they realize things are not good all of a sudden- but you know all this. I hope you are feeling Ok and how did the tests go?? GLad H is supporting you a bit. You sound better!