Stay strong, lis. You are the clearheaded one. \:\( I had a stupid myspace, stating myself "in a relationship" (meaning OM) with OM pics and everything. I'm so embarrassed to even tell you this. I really can't believe I had one. It was not "me". I was so lost and sooo living another life and not facing the reality of anything. I get sick to my stomach now thinking of it all and how immature and stupid I was. To face all that I did wrong is very painful. It will be for her as well. I hope she faces it now before she loses her family.