Some days is right! Im so sorry Max. My H had the affair, but I understand how much your hurting. Ive come to terms with the end of my M, even started dating again, but some days, I cry harder than I did when he was moving out. Usually when he has the nerve to remind me of his existance with a text message or something! I think that time really is all that will help.

I try to play outside every day, I go to the beach or just play with my dogs in the yard, it helps, though its starting to get harder, it hasnt gotten warmer than 27 degrees here today! But the ocean is beautiful during a windstorm. And it reminds me that Im more than just an abandoned wife, it makes it a little harder to feel sorry for myself.

Last edited by bluerain; 10/26/08 09:18 PM.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...