Hi, I'm a veteran of these boards and I am returning for some much needed advice. A bit about me, I am a single dad (finally) and share my daughter in joint custody. My ex and I keep things on friendly terms, and we do tend to support each other when we each have plans and regarding our daughter, and I even lend an ear or give advice regarding my ex's rebellious teenage son. Even though I will be permanently be divorced from my ex - I am not really out of her life obviously, but we make parenting work on a daily basis. So far, I have been able to re-define myself and regained my own identity - which is an ongoing process. Emotionally, I am doing fine and taking each day as it comes.

As a divorced single dad - what's the best avenue to start dating again? I don't plan on living the rest of my life as a hermit crab just because I had one failed marriage - that's ridiculous. I want, like most people, to find a decent and attractive woman (with many more good qualities). I tried online dating sites, been on a few, no cigar. I despise clubs to meet, and I just want to make myself known as being "available". Even my own daughter tells me I should be dating and supports it!!


~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
~ Happiness is a state of mind ~