I don't think that we can recover from this. I think that the only way for me to forgive him, truly, would be if we reconciled our M. And I just don't think that he has any interest in it, too much work, I think. This isn't something you can ask for forgiveness for, you will have to earn it. I just find it unbelievable that he really doesn't want to try to fix it! Isn't that what you are supposed to do when you hurt someone? Try to make it up to them? I guess that's what good people do, not affair having sleazeballs.
Glad to see you, but sorry you're going through a rough time!!! I do think normal, healthy people would try to make it up to you, but I realized at some point, our WAS I don't think for the most part are normal and healthy. Most seem to be broken and messed up and leading unhealthy lives, that includes my H and sounds like your H is too. Maybe some day some will get their act together, like your H hopefully. And probably some won't....It's hard enough just getting myself together, so can't worry about it too much, although I still pray for my H every night. Karen
