LOL!! Just got an email from H, as we're trying to work out visiting arrangements for the week. Says he'll need to devote some time to completing the "discovery documents that I requested".
First of all, it's never a problem for me to have my daughter with me as much as possible. Not an inconvenience, not in the way. So having her more often this week isn't a negative consequence of completing divorce paperwork (in the divorce that he filed).
Second of all, I didn't request any documents. It's standard procedure in divorce cases in this state to submit a financial disclosure statement, which I did a month ago at his attorney's request--knowing it's just part of the initial process. Now he's inconvenienced by completing the same documents, which are standard. Gosh, I hate to tell you H, but there's some work, some inconvenience and some outright pain to this process that you wanted, even for those who are entitled to happiness and self-actualization with their soulmates outside the marriage. This is cracking me up; he may have to grow up just a little bit and he's whining about it.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
